Wouldn't it be nice if you knew some of the signs that your ex is missing you? You may want to get back together, but it's so hard to make that first step when you don't know whether your ex feels the same way.
Some people may tell you that you should let your ex know that you want to get back together regardless of how they feel. Some people will tell you that there is simply no good reason for you to get back with your ex. Finally, some people may tell you to wait for a sign. Fortunately, the signs aren't that hard to see:
Signs that Your Ex is Missing You
1. Your ex has initiated contact. One of the surest signs that your ex is missing you is when they contact you. This is especially true if they were calling to see how you were doing, and not just wanting to meet to give you your things back. Contacting you in any form shows that they are thinking about you. This may not mean that they want to get back together (yet), but it does show that they miss you.
2. Your ex seems to "bump into you" often. If your ex happens to turn up at your favorite hang out or at your workplace, you can be pretty sure that they were hoping to see you. This is a very good sign that your ex misses you, so take note and know that you may be able to contact them without seeming desperate.
3. Your ex is asking friends about you. Your ex may be too shy to contact you directly or see you face to face, but that doesn't mean that they don't still care. They may try to get information about you from a mutual friend. If you start to hear from your friends that your ex has been asking about you, take that as a sign that they're missing you.
4. Your ex gets nostalgic. If you do talk to your ex, pay attention to the types of things that they talk about. If they talk about mundane things, then they may not be missing you. However, if you find that they tend to reminisce about the past, there's a good chance that they miss you and the fun times that you shared.
What to Do if Your Ex is Missing You
If your ex is exhibiting some of the signs that they miss you, then the ball is in your court. Try to think about what you really want to do about your situation. Do you want to get back together, or leave well enough alone?
In order to get back together, you may have to make the first move. This could make you vulnerable, as your ex may reject your advances. However, the rewards can be much greater if you actually do get back together. Isn't that worth a shot?
